How to Get that Man
December 22nd, 2010Number 2 on the all time most prevalently asked question list for women has to be the perennial “How to Get a Man” question. This is essentially a question that seeks guidance on how best a woman should go about being desired and taken by a man. To ‘get a man’ you must first find one; then gain his attention; then become memorable; then become desired; then ‘taken’ or ‘acquired’. At that point you will have ‘gotten’ him. A thorough understanding of these principles might, indeed, help to get ex back. If you are trying to recover a broken relationship, your chance to win your ex back, will be heightened by knowing all these things.
If we begin at ‘Go’ we can proceed through the entire scenario. We will not herein attempt a dissertation on ways to find men. There are zillions of Cosmo-type articles devoted to this subject - from dating websites to local watering holes. The point is to find and connect with the kinds of men that fit the definition of who you are looking for.
Once you have found and identified a candidate Hunk, you will need an introduction. Luckily, in the U.S. - it is not necessary for an ‘arranged’ introduction. It is still possible and acceptable to introduce yourself to a total stranger. Nonetheless, personally arranged, personally orchestrated and socially patterned introductions are still best and most effective.
Your most critical element in the introduction is not your attire or what you say - but rater what your body language says. Our only point in this article is to instill in you an intense and burning desire to acquaint yourself with the concept, theory, and practice of body language. A properly executed series of ‘communications’ will make you memorable.
Your next task is to be desired. While easier said than done it is, nonetheless, doable. Before you lay yourself out there for all the world to see you should know what you are selling and why. If the target hunk is worldly and sophisticated he is no doubt seeking an equal so you must come off as independent and career-accomplished. If he is blue-collar, then you might consider the soft and easily malleable human variety.
The final act in this romantic comedy - or tragedy as may eventuate - is the act of the fish landing the fisherman. It is for the man to make the play and slay the beast. Your goal is to get the man and, in doing it, allow him to believe that he landed you. Do this by ‘landing’ his ego and arranging for an appropriate quotient RE the ‘Love Equation’. (See the WWH article entitled - “The Back Door to a Man’s Heart” 9/8/10).
If you are attempting to get ex back from a breakup caused by the absence of these things, take heed.

